Being abandoned by his friends when he needs them most.
Being beaten by rods.
Being slandered right to his face.
Being stripped naked.
Having thorns pressed into his flesh.
Being nailed to a piece of wood and hanging there.
Sorrowing, sighing, bleeding.
That’s where God is when it hurts.
Hurting with you.
Taking all the pain and sorrow and hurt of the world into himself and swallowing it.